Date with more calm and confidence.
If dating fills you with dread, overthinking, or the urge to cancel, you're not alone. Coaching helps you understand the fear and move toward connection at a pace that feels safe.
More than nerves
Dating anxiety often grows from past hurt, old beliefs about worth, or fear of rejection. It can show up as avoiding apps, freezing on dates, or pulling away when someone gets close.
How we work together
We identify your triggers and patterns, build simple ways to settle your nervous system, and practice showing up as yourself. Hypnosis can be used as a supportive tool to soften old fears.
Who this is for
Anyone returning to dating after a breakup or divorce, new to dating, or tired of repeating the same painful patterns.
What we can work on
- Fear of rejection
- Overthinking before and after dates
- Fear of intimacy and opening up
- Confidence and self-worth
- Dating after divorce or a breakup
- Breaking repeating relationship patterns
Common questions
What is dating anxiety?
Dating anxiety is the worry, nervousness or fear that shows up around meeting people, first dates, or opening up in a new relationship. It's common, and it can change.
How can coaching help with dating anxiety?
We look at what triggers the fear, the beliefs underneath it, and practical ways to feel calmer and more like yourself when dating. Hypnosis can be added as a supportive tool when it fits.
Is this therapy?
No. Coaching is focused on the present and on next steps. It is not a substitute for medical or mental health care.
Are sessions online?
Yes. All coaching sessions are held privately over Zoom.
Ready when you are.
Private, judgment-free sessions with Heidi L. Wilson, held securely online via Zoom.
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